Ngobusuku obudlulileyo, bonke abasebenzi baseChemdo batye kunye ngaphandle. Ngexesha lomsebenzi, sidlale umdlalo wamakhadi okuqagela obizwa ngokuba “Ngaphezu kokuba ndingathi”. Lo mdlalo ukwabizwa ngokuba “Umngeni wokungenzi nto”. Kanye njengokuba eli gama lisitsho, awunakwenza imiyalelo efunekayo ekhadini, kungenjalo uya kuba uphumile.
Imithetho yomdlalo ayinzima, kodwa uza kufumana iLizwe elitsha xa sele ufikelele ezantsi komdlalo, oluvavanyo olukhulu lobulumko babadlali kunye neempendulo ezikhawulezayo. Sifanele siqinise iingqondo zethu ukuze sikhokele abanye ukuba benze imiyalelo ngendlela eqhelekileyo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye sisoloko siqaphela ukuba imigibe yabanye kunye neentloko zabo zikhomba kuthi na. Sifanele sizame ukuqikelela umxholo wekhadi entlokweni yethu kwinkqubo yencoko ukuze sizithintele ekwenzeni imiyalelo efanelekileyo ngokungakhathali, nto leyo ekwayindlela yokuphumelela.
Ekuqaleni, umoya wonxunguphalo oluncinci waphela ngokupheleleyo ngenxa yokuqala komdlalo. Wonke umntu wayethetha ngokukhululekileyo, ebalisa omnye komnye, kwaye bonwabile. Abanye abadlali babecinga ukuba bacinga kakuhle, kodwa basashiya izinto xa beyila ezinye, kwaye abanye abadlali "baya kuqhuma" kumdlalo kuba benza ezinye izinto zemihla ngemihla ngenxa yokuba amakhadi abo alula kakhulu.
Esi sidlo sangokuhlwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo sikhethekile. Emva komsebenzi, wonke umntu ukhulule umthwalo wakhe okwethutyana, wancama iingxaki zakhe, wadlala ngobulumko bakhe, waza wonwabela. Ibhulorho phakathi kwabalingane lifutshane, kwaye umgama phakathi kweentliziyo usondele.
Ixesha lokuthumela: Julayi-01-2022